Thursday, December 26, 2013

men and women

男:我沒有錢。
女:我們一起賺。
男:我沒有房,
女:我們一起蓋。
男:我沒有車,
女:我們一起步行,還鍛煉身體!
男:你愛我什麼。
女:你的雙手可以創造一切,最主要的是你每晚睡覺時可以抱著我,我不會孤獨。

三年後他有了自己的房子,開著自己的車子,帶著她和孩子去旅遊,她幸福的笑了!

(二)
男:我沒有錢。
女:你出去賺。
男:我沒有房,
女:你自己去蓋。
男:我沒有車,
女:那我們出去旅遊怎麼辦?
男:我真的愛你,
女:等你有錢、有房、有車了再來娶我!

三年後他有了自己的房子,自己的車子,更有一個疼他愛他的老婆,還有一個可愛的孩子,而她還是一個人,她去找他。
女:你不是愛我嗎,為什麼
男:那是我沒有錢沒有房沒有車的時候。
女:我沒關係,我只在乎你的現在,
男:我有關係,我只在乎你的現實。
女:你以前的一切我不在乎,只要能和你在一起。
男:我現在的一切我更在乎,這一切和你沒關係。
她傷心的離開,面對孤獨。
他快樂的回家,享受幸福。

這是一個社會現實,告訴我們,不要活在當下,要放眼未來,幸福是兩個人創造的,我有一切的時候也就不缺你了……                    

你寂寞,我陪你
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你難過,我逗你開心!
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你身體不舒服,我擔心你!
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你做錯了,我理解你!
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你難受,我懂你!
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你的小脾氣,我包容你!
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一切我都可以為了你!
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可我呢?我寂寞,誰陪我?
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我難過,誰逗我開心?
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... 我身體不舒服,誰擔心我?
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我錯了,誰理解我?
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我難受,誰懂我?
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我的小脾氣,誰包容我?
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這一切,誰可以為了我?
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我是人!不是神!我需要愛!
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我也需要被愛
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更需要你關心我!理解我!包容我!在乎我!這些!你懂不懂?
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其實我多想每天早上都能收到一條短信,裡面寫著:“懶豬快起床啦。記得要吃早餐哦。
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多想每天晚上都能收到一條短信,裡面寫著:笨蛋睡覺了。蓋好被子不要著涼。 
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轉到朋友圈裡看看誰會關心你?誰會在乎你? 
有一句話我始終相信:只有在自己落難的時候才會看清什麼是朋友,什麼是狗。              
你輝煌的時候,身邊全是朋友. 當你落魄的時候,身邊連條狗都沒有。              
經歷一些事讀懂一些人。不要以為我傻,只是有些東西我看在眼裡,埋在心裡。             
出賣我一次,沒關係,人都會犯錯-     
出賣我兩次,沒關係,人都會犯渾-      
出賣我三次,沒關係,不過以後我會對你加防備-      
出賣我四次,對不起,你哪位?             
得意時,“朋友”認識了我。     
落難時,我認識了朋友

Monday, December 9, 2013

marry cant divorce

Marry is a wonderful moment. Marry to someone cant be force, cant be want have sex, cant only for play, cant be only love. Forever together for marriage the thing is must have communication, no secret and also from God's Jesus. When we have to decided to live with him or her must accept all his or her what he or she had all things. As a husband love his wife so much because of his wife very pretty and few years later specially when his's wife pregnant, its really hard for women to back to slim.. some more women hormone is more than men so we cant hope wife to be slim as soon as possible. Next, when husband and wife together do not have hide anything with each other. example they had their own mobile phone and we can put our password and we must let our partner know because husband and wife 2 become 1. other example, for the bank account. can have 2 account but the amount each other must know about it. cannot said this is for own private and for future if he or she do not want have the treasure. when he or she got plan for this so one of them or both of them willing to divorce in future or might have think for break up. every partner also have the problem. divorce cant make the problem settle. so guys lets think twice and divorce not make a good deal for settle the problem. every partner sure have the problem.. problem make us more know each other well.. for a lot example, for a small things like toothpaste not press from bottom to top and argue come out. So i want to tell u all do not play with the marry.. God's Jesus do not want us to divorce...

Anton Winoto

Sunday, December 8, 2013

恋爱和永爱

谈恋爱是很开心的事,因为和喜欢的人在一起。或许爱一个人能在一起一下是因为两方的错或对对方的爱不够。谈恋爱是断站的开心是一下罢了。如果真的很爱一个人不管这样会对另一半着想。一当进入结婚是一定要对彼此跟恩爱和开心。因为结婚是刚开始的第一步。我寻找自己的爱情,但我觉得自己的选择是会错的。因为我们两方没有公开的面具。我觉得让上帝给我的安排我的未来和幸福。或许我和她不能和结束了,我还依然的爱他。我真的要把我和他的事解决吧。但我们不能挽回我希望你真的不要向世界一样和慢慢的离开神。我每天都听YOUTUBE教会的讲到让我变得跟有力量。希望明年的我会比较开心。

王德秀上

Friday, December 6, 2013

Dec 2013

Its December.. end of the 2013 year. now i have to plan my saving money... i do not want to spend into other not useful thing... i planning that i want to save 50% of my salary and other 10 for church and 5 for offering and 10 for my parents and other 25 for my daily use... but i think twice that i cant save too much... i just want to use the kwsp way for help me save my future money... so i will take out 22% from my income. and other 15% in Church. 33% i will put in my FD... and other i will spend on my daily use like shopping, play badminton and other... i hopefully i can control my saving plan and try do not expend more than 30% from my income.. because in future my family need the money.. so i feel that i can manage my plan well. i also want to learn English well and must change my life to be active and more active in my work side... i waste my time with my useless things and waste my time on someone that i really love so much.. but for me i and her cant be back and be a good end... so i feel that its good for me to let her go and just focus on my work and my family and important is my Jesus... Yes i long time did not go to my Own church but for me important is our hearth is for Jesus and keep pray to HIM. when i am down i feel of thinking of someone... human can hurt me but Jesus not leave me alone.. for people do not know who are HIM maybe though i keep pray but HE not reply my pray. i can tell you all when we pray HE is listening to us and want us to be more pray to him and make our heart to JESUS only... HE will give the way for us.. the Best way... Believe me... Jesus is the Way To the Heaven...

AntonWinoto